If beauty lies in the eyes of Beerholder..wat abt Infatuation?

So does infatuation lies in tha hands of one holding 50 shades of grey ..????heard soo much abt this book that I've wanted to read it but a friend advised against coz that book totally takes us to another planet ...where we start believing that men dnt come from Venus but frm Hell only Christian grey comes from Venus (it's funny how this wrd rhymes with something else naughty ;) ) ....apparently thrs no guy on this earth like him ..not even Channing tantum :( ....
Have u realized how imp today it is to look good not only dress well but look good with a perfect figure ,perfect jawline,perfect smile,perfect lifestyle including perfect kids ...omg this is whole loads-a crap ...I'm glad I'm not a teenager today would be so tough to live upto everyone's expectation ..will be so tough to be accepted ....soo much pressure to look good in a relationship else the other person might stray ...I can't believe what I'm seeing/hearing around me ...once ur in a committed relationship that's it .."look but don't touch" applies ...this is a very std rule else you sudnt  get into a committed state .The world is filled with beautiful ppl ..so folks get drunk ..u will then feel like you are the most luckiest person and have the most beautiful partner !!!