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If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...then it's not love .. it's ~ Infatuation ~......
If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's ~ compromise ~.......
If you love some one because you think that you cannot live with out his touch ....then it's not love .. it's ~lust~......
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...then it's not love.. it's ~ inferiority complex~......
If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..then it's not love .. it's ~charity~....
If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...then it's not love... it's ~friendship~...
but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's ~LOVE~ if you get attracted to three other people but stay with him without any regrets...that's ~LOVE~If you let him go knowing that he has to go but doesn't want to ...that's ~LOVE~

What woman should have -totally love this makes sense

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVEone old loveshe can imaginegoing back to...
and one who remindsher how far she has come...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
>> >>> >..enough money within her>> >>> >control to move out and
>> >>> >rent a place of her own
>> >>> >even if she never wants>> >>> >to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE>> >>> >
>> >>> >..something perfect to wear if
>> >>> >the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an >> >>> >hour...

>> >>> >A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE>> >>> >
>> >>> >..a youth she's content>> >>> >to leave behind...

>> >>> >A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
>> >>> >>> >>> >...a past juicy enough that
>> >>> >she's looking forward to>> >>> >retelling it in her old age....

>> >>> >A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
>> >>> >>> >>> >...a set of screwdrivers,
>> >>> >cordless drill, and a black>> >>> >lace bra...

>> >>> >A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
>> >>> >>> >>> >..one friend who always
>> >>> >makes her laugh... and one who>> >>> >lets her cry...

>> >>> >A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
>> >>> >>> >>> >..a good piece of furniture
>> >>> >not previously owned by anyone>> >>> >else in her family...

>> >>> >A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
>> >>> >>> >>> >..eight matching plates, wine
>> >>> >glasses with stems, and a>> >>> >recipe for a meal that will make
>> >>> >her guests feel honored..

>> >>> >A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE>> >>> >
>> >>> >>> >>> >...a feeling of control over
>> >>> >her destiny...


>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >>> >>> >..how to fall in love
>> >>> >without losing herself...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >
>> >>> >..how to quit a job,>> >>> >break up with a lover,>> >>> >and confront a friend>> >>> >without ruining the friendship...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >>> >>> >...when to try harder...and
>> >>> >when to walk away...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >
>> >>> >...that she can't change the>> >>> >length of her calves, the width
>> >>> >of her hips, or the nature of her
>> >>> >parents...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >>> >>> >...that her childhood may
>> >>> >not have been perfect...
>> >>> >but it's over...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >>> >>> >...what she would and
>> >>> >wouldn't do for love or more...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...>> >>> >
>> >>> >..how to live alone... even if
>> >>> >she doesn't like it...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >
>> >>> >...whom she can trust,>> >>> >whom she can't,
>> >>> >and why she shouldn't>> >>> >take it personally...

>> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >>> >>> >...where to go...
>> >>> >be it to her best friend's>> >>> >kitchen table...or a charming inn
>> >>> >in the woods...when her soul needs soothing...

> >>> >EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
>> >>> >>> >>> >..what she can and can't
>> >>> >accomplish in a day...>> >>> >a month...and a year...
>> >>> >

Reasoning out !!

hmmm....felt awesum opening up to preethi akka abt a whole lota things ...im juss beginning to wonder ..no seriously ..Is sumthing really wrong with me ?? what am i holding back so strong for ?? for whom ? for what ??
well i want to get high on life do all da crazy things ..feel butterfly in my tummy ..sharing ,loving and caring ..but thennn again why dont i juss meet my knight in shining ( shetty ) armour
At times thinking abt him brings tears to my eyes ..my eyes r moist at this minute ..thinking if the man i want and for whom i waited all my life ..if he exists only in fantasy land.
However life isnt all abt Men .. i know we want them ...for various reasons to spoil and pamper and listen to all the stupid things u gotta say ..but there is soo much more to do in life than think abt sumthing that dont exist ..mannnn i so wanna be freee ..flyyyy open n the sky , which has no limits ..on my own ,wanna Travel to a whole lota places ..earn a lota money so that i can spend on the people i care abt and love ...at times it worries to think if money would make me selfish ?? hahaha watever man ...cant believe i wud change to such an extent ..i know what i am ..* A humble human being *...im being way too modest !!
But then my question is how do i mint money ..im sure my company is no way gonna pay me beeg bucks for no reason ...sweetie lemme juss think what i can do ...lemme sleep tonite with this thought !!

Im backkk

Well i had almost forgotten this site and also my blog ....been longggg time since I did write ..me shall pull up my socks and start writing in full swinggggg ....loadsa changes happened in the past one year ..people change ..things change ..i guess i have changed ..ohh wait a minute ..dnt think that has happened i havent yet changed ..gosh when will i leave my " The epitome of sweetness " outluk and turn to the bitchy -attitude-snob that most people at work think i am ...Gosh atleast then i guess i will have guys run behind me ..I read this sumwhere and it is soo damn True " Never let anyone become priority in your life ...that you will remain only an Option in theirs " ...
Trust me guys dont like good gals its only the snobs or the bitches they run behind ...well why am i writing abt men ?????? Dont i have better topic to think of ?? errr ummmmm ..wellllll i do have loadsa other topics . ..likeeeee ..ummm...ME !!!